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How to Find Your Purpose
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When you're aligned to your life’s purpose, you come alive. You live more in the moment. Life holds more meaning. And it makes the rough days a little easier.
No one can tell you what your life's purpose is. But in this video, I provide some food for thought-just a few different ways to think about finding your purpose.
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1:13 Does your purpose have to be your job?
1:42 The pitfall of pursuing your passion
3:32 What do you stand for?
4:19 Find your superpower
4:59 Identify what lights you up
6:12 Pick the right pond
7:31 Loving your sandwich
8:14 Break up with "the one"
9:08 Your purpose won't come find you
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  • @andreaschmall5560
    @andreaschmall5560 10 годин тому

    I would refuse to interview anyone who uses any of these filler words if I was a radio or TV host. I frequently have to change the station regardless of my interest in the subject matter due to this obnoxious habit some people have.

  • @Aletad0
    @Aletad0 17 годин тому

    this is super helpful

  • @JessicaSoria_RealEstate
    @JessicaSoria_RealEstate День тому

    Your funny. I enjoyed your video.

  • @user-ds7xw7mg2e
    @user-ds7xw7mg2e День тому

    I don’t mean this to be mean, only a suggestion. Your makeup is drastically a different color than your neck and décolletage. I would suggest a professional to show you how to blend with the correct color. .

  • @kerriemills1310
    @kerriemills1310 День тому

    Thank you.

  • @JessicaFayToday
    @JessicaFayToday День тому

    I had the, "(We) have a policy..." lie used on my two months ago. When I spoke to the Director, he said, "What policy?" Lol. And now, realizing I have a guy (salesman) who uses "the broken record technique" on me anytime I express a desire to get my needs met. He just keeps repeating himself. I'm glad to know he is using a technique and is not just insane. Lol.

  • @Jeff-nb8iy
    @Jeff-nb8iy 2 дні тому

    So how do I be more assertive ? This video is common sense crap

  • @Chic4rely
    @Chic4rely 3 дні тому

    What about back

  • @bethhoffman1954
    @bethhoffman1954 5 днів тому

    Ymca kids 🧒

  • @user-pc3ws4mq9s
    @user-pc3ws4mq9s 7 днів тому

    I feel like I am being taken advantage I live in group home and there's different women one women is mentally unstable She always wants to tag along with me feel that's not responsibility to care for her so I need to have a talk with the house mother and tell her that's it's not my responsibility or job to care for that women. I tried to allow her to tag along but it was a lot stress on me.

  • @saintluisito
    @saintluisito 10 днів тому

    3:38 The dessert spoon should always be placed ABOVE the dessert fork, not below. Otherwise, the direction of both utensils are correct: Dessert fork facing right, dessert spoon facing left

  • @adhdcartoon3338
    @adhdcartoon3338 10 днів тому

    [Chris Pine joke]

  • @peterhess2610
    @peterhess2610 12 днів тому

    Baseball caps, shorts, t-shirts and flip-flops. Nothing grosses me out like having to see some ahole’s ugly hairy legs and toes while I’m eating. Same goes for having to look at some slob’s beer gut in a wife beater t-shirt. Finally, the guy with the baseball cap probably hasn’t washed his hair in weeks.

  • @graphs1524
    @graphs1524 13 днів тому

    And if you can’t find a strong enough “why”?

  • @jamesledger2742
    @jamesledger2742 16 днів тому

    I can’t stand “hey guys”

  • @GoWithPrime
    @GoWithPrime 22 дні тому

    I really gotta quit saying "Ya Know" its a problem lol

  • @Armand0627
    @Armand0627 22 дні тому

    In middle school we where taught the place setting and table manners but throughout time I forgot. I still use table manners obviously but not much the place setting. This video really helped me remember and learn a few news things so thank you for making this video. :)

  • @user-dx9my1en2d
    @user-dx9my1en2d 24 дні тому

    whenever i hear people saying "like" a lot it annoys me. now i realise that i do that too..a lot

  • @luvmeeshpodcast
    @luvmeeshpodcast 26 днів тому

    ♥️🩷🤍

  • @raiyanharris1188
    @raiyanharris1188 26 днів тому

    What do you do with hands when you are chewing the food? Where will be the fork and spoon?

  • @Cables_
    @Cables_ 27 днів тому

    I'll never use a watch winder, i dont need my watches to be full power reserve 24/7 and i feel like it will last longer if it has time to stop and chill fof a bit

  • @aileenserrantes-xp1uh
    @aileenserrantes-xp1uh 29 днів тому

    Do I look like I have money to go out?

  • @aemiliadelroba4022
    @aemiliadelroba4022 Місяць тому

    + Mute your phone, or don’t put it on table .! 😮 Do not answer the phone.

  • @mikeyblaze
    @mikeyblaze Місяць тому

    It should be mentioned if you tell certain people your boundaries or what bothers you. They will do those things more. Be aware of who you're around, even if it's your own family or even your parents theh could be narcissistic or enmeshed and use the info you give them against you.

  • @rihamission487
    @rihamission487 Місяць тому

    This video was featured in a high school textbook of Bangladesh's national curriculum. I actually have to watch this video to pass my exams. Who else is here for the same reason?

  • @robinannerocks
    @robinannerocks Місяць тому

    Thank you! You covered so many important points. Have you created a video for gentlemen dining out? This would include walking into the restaurant, seating, ordering, appetizers, to name a few. Thanks again for teaching men how to be gentlemen!

  • @pattysaul5857
    @pattysaul5857 Місяць тому

    My 6yr old friend was addicted to the word "like". I filled a ziplock bag half full of various coins. Every time she said "like" she had to give me one coin. She stopped saying "like" and learned to tell the difference between a penny and a quarter by touch.

  • @francy2127
    @francy2127 Місяць тому

    And the old school conversation uses decent words & correct grammar. 🤗

  • @Sulaeyes
    @Sulaeyes Місяць тому

    When passing something, you don’t put it into their hands. You place it onto the table…..to the next person in line. A puts onto the table to B then B places onto the table next to C.

  • @bethhoffman1954
    @bethhoffman1954 Місяць тому

    My boyfriend your Caleb Hoffman my boyfriend your

  • @bethhoffman1954
    @bethhoffman1954 Місяць тому

    Caleb Hoffman

  • @bethhoffman1954
    @bethhoffman1954 Місяць тому

    Caleb Hoffman

  • @skharper55
    @skharper55 Місяць тому

    oh darn, I watched the whole video but didn't realize it was just for men until the end.

  • @steffvalmont6828
    @steffvalmont6828 Місяць тому

    one more tip ; wherever you are in the world, there is one thing you should never do: leave the table when the plates have not yet been cleared.

  • @MahiMuntasir6204
    @MahiMuntasir6204 Місяць тому

    I'm a student of Class 11 from Bangladesh and I heard about your channel from our English textbook which is from the government.

  • @callmemop1057
    @callmemop1057 Місяць тому

    Ya meann

  • @jamesmelcher9355
    @jamesmelcher9355 Місяць тому

    I get his point, but other than something like hiking to the top of a hill (and being able to write about it on Peakery), I find I don’t get much of any endorphin rush or runner’s high at all,even when I was younger and in better shape. Sometimes the fresh air of a short walk feels refreshing, but Ihave never gotten this physiological happy feeling from exercise. He talks about. I wish Idid.

  • @jule1934
    @jule1934 Місяць тому

    Knapkin goes in your shirt sometimes - perfectly acceptible in London clubs. And you can only put your elboes on the table if you are an Uncle. Thats the rule. Bread plate? Side plate. cmon. Any restaurant that puts cutlery above your setting is not worth earting at BTW. This is a sin. Any restaurant that serves something you need to use your fingers to eat you should leave immediately (except Oysters).

  • @kroganoperator
    @kroganoperator Місяць тому

    This was very helpful, thank you Chris Pine.

  • @NajLahsen
    @NajLahsen Місяць тому

    One of the things that no one ever mentions about table etiquette, is that you should NEVER point 👉 at someone's food or even your own food. It's absolutely repelling 😫

  • @Joetona386
    @Joetona386 2 місяці тому

    You've had time to think about this and rehearse this when people are in the heat of the moment with an argument they can't just think of s*** like that you can't either

  • @kyled5724
    @kyled5724 2 місяці тому

    Kind of ridiculous how many rules there are for eating food.

  • @user-nm7nq7ck2v
    @user-nm7nq7ck2v 2 місяці тому

    Thank you. This is not unhelpful. But I feel like these standard methods would be transparent to a perceptive person. Some even seen as manipulative.

  • @user-cy6kf2hb9y
    @user-cy6kf2hb9y 2 місяці тому

    yall that guy presenting tho...

  • @judyjohnson9610
    @judyjohnson9610 2 місяці тому

    This looks like a good place to ask a question. I was relating on a FaceBook post about how a family member came to our home for turkey dinner. She pulled a bottle of hot sauce out of her purse and put it all over her food. Some commenters on the post disagreed with me that this was disrespectful. Your thoughts? Thanks

  • @ashleyadams6803
    @ashleyadams6803 2 місяці тому

    Good table manners were very important to my parents when I was growing up. Ina Garten the Barefoot Contessa should subscribe to you, she always leans one arm on the table! I watched someone on UA-cam who put mounds of spaghetti on a large piece of garlic bread and then sucked it into her mouth, unbelievable! Nice video, I enjoyed!

  • @foreverdan
    @foreverdan 2 місяці тому

    Nice

  • @laradsouza5242
    @laradsouza5242 2 місяці тому

    Hello there You look like Chris Pine and Ryan Reynolds......child?

  • @eatonbeaver69
    @eatonbeaver69 2 місяці тому

    Great advice. I still have trouble when someone is using the broken record technique on me when I'm trying to assert a boundary.

  • @ceomgmt
    @ceomgmt 2 місяці тому

    2024 The word PERIOD is overly used, especially in the younger demographics.